![]() ![]() They are also empathetic and attentive to their partner’s needs. In double Four couples, both parties tend to be emotionally open and sensitive. ![]() They will both end up considering each other way too emotionally needy and demanding, which they don’t think they will be able to stand on the long run.In all double-type relationships, both types bring the same traits to the relationship, which is why the health level of each party can be particularly important. All of these can increase Fours’ feelings of abandonment and make Twos feel increasingly unappreciated by their partner. They might feel socially inept and overshadowed by their Four’s charm. For them, Twos are secretly needy and emotionally insecure, desperate to get other people’s approval.Īs a result of their differences, Fours might feel secretly jealous of Twos social life and the aura created around them. ![]() They think Twos are kind of dishonest and shifty as to get what they want from people around them, which Fours fully despise. On the other hand, Fours find Twos too sentimental and artificially optimistic. They also see Fours as hypersensitive and selfish: they don’t care about others as much as they care about themselves. On one hand, Twos think Fours are too moody, unstable and often driven by their unconscious impulses and desires. Even though these emotional issues they have in common allow them to fully understand each other, they also lay the ground for potential conflicts since they both need intimacy and quickly hold onto anyone who responds to it. Although they are a natural fit in some areas – Twos being the rescuers and Fours the rescued ones, they are sometimes too emotional and demanding which could be an issue. This Enneagram combination makes quite a rare pairing in intimate relationships and they usually work better as colleagues or friends. This connection also helps them forget about what others think about them and become more inner-oriented. They can lighten each other up with unexpected humor and invite the other to get to higher levels of emotional maturity. Fours invite Twos to take a closer look at their needs and seek for their inner truth while Twos appreciate Four’s subtlety and nuances. They also bring emotional depth, delicacy, a touch of mystery and unpredictability, and also sensuality and sexual freedom to their relationship. They’re also subtle and caring, allowing Twos to feel more relaxed and nurtured. On the other hand, Fours bring a sense of humor, creativity and emotional honesty to the relationship. They are also highly practical, action-oriented and willing to do what needs to be done, no matter how unpleasant or unglamorous it might be. Their most prominent traits are: warmth, thoughtfulness, moral sense, generosity and encouragement. They feed off of each other: Twos bring energy and social abilities to the relationship, and give Fours the self-esteem to be open and interact with others. If they manage to have a healthy connection, they can be a safe place for each to share their dreams, hopes, fears, and insecurities. Both these Enneagram types look for love and connection and are willing to offer it too when they find the right person for them. This couple has the potential to be warm and affectionate if both parties continue to openly share their feelings and emotions over time.
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